In case you think that everyone should be kind and sweet to you, then you need to start with yourself. Being kind to yourself means understanding yourself better, accepting your own flaws, and working towards self-development. You need to treat yourself right if you want others to do the same way. Once you are treating yourself greatly, you are ready to make this world a better place. To organize yourself you have to be kind to yourself so here are some ways to be kind to yourself. 

• Respect yourself 

Self-respect means valuing yourself for who you are, and not following anyone else. It is trusting yourself, thinking for yourself, forming your own opinions, and decisions. Plus you have to stop comparing yourself to others. 

• Surround yourself with happy people 

Spend time with people who care for you and bring positivity around. The people you stay with influence you, so be with people who make you happy. Normal conversation with friends also lightens up your mood, so surround yourself with happy people. 

• Practice self-care 

One of the best ways to be kind to yourself is to take good care of yourself. So set some habits that help you take care of your mind and body. Do exercise, meditate, eat right, take long showers, pamper yourself, and take rest as well. 

• Give yourself recognition 

We are very quick in acknowledging the achievements of others but don’t consider ours. This now has to stop. Be aware of your own achievements and give yourself the required recognition. When you do something you are proud of, appreciate yourself. 

• Stop comparing yourself 

We all compare ourselves while it is important to notice and appreciate good in others but you should take it as inspiration, rather than comparing yourself to others. Be patient with yourself, trust yourself and you will achieve all you want. 

• Set realistic goals 

Do not put too much pressure on yourself. Set smaller, achievable goals. Such small achievements will boost your morale and build self-confidence. This will also prepare you to take risks and complete other goals.